
Working with Kids on Location
As a photographer of people and especially “Kids of All Ages”, I have found a few techniques to be essential. Most of these would be common sense to parents and Maîtré D’s, but as photographers, we can be somewhat techno geeky. We need to crank up our social empathy quotient.
1) Look people in the eye, and smile. You are a mirror to what you will get back from your subjects. If you’re going for the aloof artist look, then be one.
If you can get your subject to smile and or laugh in the first 30 seconds, you are on your way to a good working relationship. People want to be happy, and a smile is the first step.
2) Tell people what you want them to do, and how you’d like them to be. Generally, your subject is looking for direction. Give it in simple, clear, calm messages.
3) Talk about them, not about you. This would be common sense for a single person on a first date. Same goes for people you are about to photograph.
4) Use appropriate language skills for your audience. If you are working with Kindergartners, avoid big adult words. If you’re going to photograph the English Department art Yale, study up. Never swear, no matter who you’re with; it’s just not cool.
5) Tell jokes only when needed, and after you feel comfortable with the subjects at hand. And as many jokes as I know, I keep them at the 3rd grade level when on shoots. Everybody gets those. Only after someone on set “leads” with a sophisticated line of humor will I follow. Too much jokestering can upset a quiet mood on a shoot; so be judicious.
6) Patience, patience, patience with little kids. Many young kids are basically scared of us big folks and hide behind Mom and Dad. If so, talk to Mom and Dad, make them laugh and feel comfortable with you. The kids will follow. Same with dogs.
7) Watch your chimping! “Chimping” is when you look at the back of your digital camera just after pushing the shutter and go “Oooh, Ooohh, Ooooh!” I feel you have just broken a tie between you and your subject. They see you looking elsewhere than at them. Same thing happens if you’re shooting tethered and constantly turn to look at the monitor.
If you need to chimp, then tell your subject what you’re doing and why. Before shooting starts, I will often let a subject know that I will need to check the camera or monitor. I’m not ignoring them.
A final thought- keep in mind what it’s like to be your subject, surrounded by lights or whatever, with people staring at them. Keep it fun and make it seem uncomplicated.